You've gotta.....

You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching/ Love like you'll never be hurt/ Sing like there's nobody listening/ And live like it's heaven on earth.
William W. Purkey

marți, iulie 23

Despre casnicie in viziune buddista. Sau despre cum ar trebui sa fie orice relatie de iubire, nu neparat cu verigheta pe deget.

Pare mai complicat la terapeut, dar budistii o spun mai cu candoare, astfel incat parca te fac sa intelegi. Despre secretul casniciei.... Caci este un secret!

....According to Buddhist teaching, in a marriage, the husband can expect the following qualities from his wife:
  • — love
  • — attentiveness
  • — family obligations
  • — faithfulness
  • — child-care
  • — thrift
  • — the provision of meals
  • — to calm him down when he is upset
  • — sweetness in everything
In return, the wife's expectation from husband is:
  • — tenderness
  • — courtesy
  • — sociability
  • — security
  • — fairness
  • — loyalty
  • — honesty
  • — good companionship
  • — moral support....

Restul si tare frumos spus pe pagini intregi de non-agresiune si candoare, aici.
A Happy Married Life. A Buddhist Perspective
by Ven. K. Sri Dhammananda